Women on a Broken Bridge ~ Part Two

Continued from yesterday…

          As I continued to walk the rest of the way to my office I was all set to mentally judge them…and then, true to His nature and character, the Holy Spirit saw this as a teachable moment and for the next few moments He reminded me of similar such instances in my own life wherein I deliberately chose contrary to some stated rule or regulation. The obvious question was and is, “how am I – how are we – so different than these two young adults?”  Better yet, how are we the same?

          In addition to this gracious rebuke, the Holy Spirit also reminded me of what the Lord says to us in Matthew.

Plain and clear:
“Judge not, that you be not judged.  For with what judgment you judge, you will be judged; and with the measure you use, it will be measured back to you.  And why do you look at the speck in your brother’s eye, but do not consider the plank in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me remove the speck from your eye’; and look, a plank is in your own eye?  Hypocrite! First remove the plank from your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.” ~~ Matthew 7:1-5

          Apart from the saving grace of God; apart from His transforming grace we are all in the same boat, lost and sinking deep, deep, deeper into sin. Can I get a witness?!

          Dear sisters, let’s choose today to allow the Holy Spirit to focus our attention on any and all areas of our life where we are cutting corners, taking short cuts, giving less, wasting more, etc.

          Let’s choose to dive into the water of the Word of God and be all that we can be for the glory of God.

Colossians 3:12-17:
“Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, longsuffering; bearing with one another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do. But above all these things put on love, which is the bond of perfection. And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also you were called in one body; and be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom, teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord. And whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through Him.”


Stephanie Paul serves as part of the Addiction Recovery Team at America’s Keswick as Director of Women’s Addiction Ministry. She has been married for almost 30 years to Sesky Paul who is a graduate of the Colony of Mercy. Stephanie serves alongside him as Care Group leaders in their church. They have two grown children.
Her single focus in ministry at Keswick is to image Christ in grace and truth to wounded and hurting women, encouraging them to make Jesus the truest Lover of their soul and the One in whom all hope lies.


One thought on “Women on a Broken Bridge ~ Part Two

  1. Mary O'Brien says:

    Thank you Stephanie. John Owen was quoted in Gary Thomas’s book, “Sacred Marriage” …”The person who understands the evil in his own heart is the only person who is useful, fruitful, and solid in his beliefs and obedience. Others only delude themselves and thus upset families, churches, and other relationships. In their self-pride and judgment of others, they show great inconsistency.” When I read this last night, it was a stinging but needed rebuke/reminder to me.

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